Sorry to bump this up even more, but i just wanted to have a say in this. When an admin is killed they can tell if it is a DM or not, but still ask anyways just in case of the chance it is a hit. Other players, when DMed, they automatically say DM! Then the person who killed that person tries to explain why that did it or something. It usually goes like this:
Exp:
A: OMG DM!!
B: That wasn't a DM, you hit me first!
A: No i didn't you just shot me! :O
B: Nuh uh, you punched me!!!
etc etc...
As you can see it is hard for us to tell when DM's are occuring whether we ask or not. When I DO try to ask it whinds up as a huge arguement and i have to turn ooc off and still can't kick/ban the person because there is no evidence involved :\
To conclude my speech, all i have to say is: Lighten up, give us a chance to do our jobs. We're trying to pull our weight for the server but sometimes the job is frustrating and difficult. Give us a chance to show the server that we can do our job.
-Milly
EDIT: I didn't read shippo's post before, but i spose him and i basically have the same idea in our messages...